She went without saying a word
What have I done?
I told dont be too happy/sad
Whatever it is take it in a easy way
Bcoz of this she left me???
Ya...I told this when she was very happy
She thought that I dont like her to be happy
She misconstrued me
I thought my friend should tackle all situations
Without losing courage, confidence...
Even we are not together
I thought others should not laugh at my friend
For her silly doings....
I thought my friend should be perfect
Is this a reason for avoiding me???
Ya... She thought Iam always criticising her
I want to be a true friend
Who laughs & criticizes for right reasons
I dont have any partiality in friendship
All are equal to me
But how can she say that she had less affection
On me than our other friends???
At last...I realized that Iam worrying about a friend
Who didnt thinks about me....
12 comments:
What u said is very true, but she mistaken when u said on the movement she was happy. I love the care you have on friends, she misses to learn this… hope if she come across your blog she may regret.
Have a good weekend buddy.
Ohh Kalai ... dont worry ... the fact that u were ther for ur frnd is the best u can do ... once u have given ur best u shldnt worry for each and everyone has our own responsibility ...
"I want to be a true friend
Who laughs & criticizes for right reasons - I think that is why frnds are there or rather shld be there ... if they only talk good abt u then its not true frndship ... and it works both ways
Alok
Ah very sad. Keep your chin up.
Jeevan,
thanks a lot friend. i got very nice friends including u & all in blogspot. iam very happy 4 dat. thank u 4 ur kind words buddy...
Alok,
thanks friend u cleared me. I did my best (tried to be best) as a friend. As u said, i wont worry abot dis here onwards... thanks a lot buddy...
Manimala,
ya... sure friend...
I hate misunderstandings. People sometimes don't see the goodness in others for their own selfish reasons.
Listening is important. If the friendship is important to you, talk with her. It doesn't matter who is right all the time. Friends forgive each other, or they cease to be friends.
I'm sorry you are upset. May the new day give you renewed strength and hope. Hugs.
Sera,
absolutely true dear...
She is talking wit me. but my minus point is, if i got any bad opinion abot anybody then i cant talk wit them as before... i think she didnt realized what she had done...She is a very nice character. i should accept dis but selfish... dis is what bothering me much... iam sure dat one day she will feel 4 my affection (sorry)... Iam praying to god dat she should be much happy in her life...
Sorry 2 all 4 upsetting bcoz of my silly post....
wait for a while.. koncha naalula she will understand
Priya,
U r rite... thanks a lot for ur encouraging words...take care...
This is really sad, but I can promise you my friend, she will surely understand one day...misunderstandings do creep & sometimes it only helps in strengthening a relationship...so just move on & you will be the happy one at the end.
Kalyan,
"misunderstandings do creep & sometimes it only helps in strengthening a relationship"
ya.. wat u said is exactly true friend... thanks a lot 4 those kind, supportive & encouraging words...
Ya, I understand how it is when something happens. Sometimes a few words are all it takes to hurt someone and damage a relationship. Trust and good will have to be earned. I'm glad you are at least talking. Hugs.
Sera,
u r exactly rite dear... thanks a lot 4 those kind words Sera....
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