Nowadays, divorce has become a fashion. We happen to hear many news about this.
According to me, a wife should be one who can adjust well and she can avoid all problems. She can solve any kind of trouble. This suits for the husband too. He should not blindly support anyone. He had to analyse the situation and then he had to support them. He should be able to convince both his parents and wife.
Some reasons for divorce are: They dont like their partner, Misunderstanding between them, Not taking care of their spouse parents like their own parents, Due to job, Bcoz of salary, Due to parents as they used to say something wrong about their partner, May be their partner sometimes rude, Lack of manners, etc...
By this they are affecting their childrens mentality. Just think about your child, your memories with your partner, how you will be in your future. Iam sure that you can take a right decision after that....
The main magical word between a very nice couple is "Mutual understanding". Just be open to your partner even when you have done wrong. Say it politely. Sure your partner wont mistake you if he/she loves you truly...
If i hurt anyone, i apologies....
4 comments:
The whole point Kalai is the any relationship has to have respect for each other .... the respect for individual right and that includes the right to live the wy one wants to .... and tht hold true even after marriage .... the reason for so many divorces these days is the fact that couples assumes tht the rights are not individual but mutual .....
very thought provoking post
alok
Alok,
Thank you. I agree with you.
But, how can mutual understanding leads to problem. Each can share their ideas. They will take decisions together. This leads to a satisfaction. They can involve in their work well.
Am i wrong friend?..
firsts the couple has to be loved and then go to marriage.
"By this they are affecting their children's mentality" Its true.
Jeevan,
Ya.. u r right friend. First they should love each other and then they had to marry....
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