Thursday, October 4, 2007

Our Culture...

One of our friend in our hostel thought to see separate house for her and her friends. When our sister (Warden) heard this, she told her about another girl who is at present staying alone in a house. Though she felt something wrong, she had no choice to avoid this. She went with the sister to see that house. She liked that house and the girl moved well. She got information from the sister that the girl was staying with her brother and at present he went for onsite. So the girl is staying alone and she is so scared of that.

At last, our friend said ok and she told she will shift soon. But within a day, the girl talked to our friend to come and stay that night as she is alone. So our friend went to stay with her that night. The way she dressed and the way she talked with our friend seemed to be very odd. Our friend felt very shy. For this the girl coolly replied "whats wrong with u". The girl even added that chennai girls will be like this only. The girl threatened our friend not to use mobile. Our friend didnt slept that night and she came to hostel early in the morning itself.

See, we are coming from different places to chennai particularly for our studies,
employment, etc. We have to pick the right one from others not the bad one. Now, the modern culture has become very worst.

Being a girl, I felt ashamed in the culture the girls are following now. Boys wont tease us if we dress properly.

Our Nation is respected for our culture too. Many foreigners like our culture. They are transferring to our culture. This is a good one. But, what we are doing?.... Simply moving to their culture in the name of modern culture....

Girls... please think for a while... If I hurt anyone, I apologies....

3 comments:

Jeevan said...

Well you said right kalai. Indian culture is one that honours our people, we are not against modern dressing, but it should be not spoiling ours and look decent for visible.

Seraphine said...

The world grows smaller every day. We see each other via satellite or in movies or in the news, and slowly (or maybe not so slowly) cultures change or even merge their best ideas.
Yet, it will be a sad world if everyone loses their unique identities and richness.
The internet is a wonderful place. I hope through it, all people learn to love each other as well as celebrate our differences and respect our individual heritages and cultures.

kalai said...

Jeevan,

Thanks 4 supporting me friend...

ya, even Iam not against modern dressing. It should look good & it should not tempt others to tease...

Now, most of them r wearing dresses just by looking others. The sad thing is that wont suit them well.. We have to select dresses which suits well for us not by seeing what others are wearing....

Seraphine,

What u have said is exactly right buddy...

Ya.. it will be a sad world if everyone loses their unique identities and richness.

Yes, internet is a wonderful place. We became friends its all bcoz of this...